attack of ooglay!

Okay i just looked at my blog....it's ooglay!!!!! That's right, not ugly but ooglay!!! I need help, how do you make it cute? i hate my title color and format, but i don't know enough about any of this junk to do anything about it! HELP ME!!!!! Everyone's blog i look at is way adorable and for once in my life i want to be like the crowd...a cute blog! Help!